The importance of being affectionate to one another in a relationship is undeniable. It keeps the bond strong and ensures that sparks are still there. Often times, however, we become too busy and neglect showing affection. Remember that getting past every problem will be for nothing if there is no affection in the relationship, so explore some of these ways to show it to your significant other.
It pays to remember.
If you've been paying attention to your significant other long enough, you will know his/her favorites. Simple gestures such as cooking his favorite dish and having it ready by the time he gets home from work will be received with gratitude.
If he's busy in the garage, bring him some refreshments to keep his mood up and his motivation going. Or how about putting together a few of her favorite snacks and delivering it to her when it's her time of the month and she needs comforting?
Kiss him/her in public.
Don't hesitate to engage in a little PDA every now and then. Aside from getting the blood pumping, it will also let your partner know that you are proud of him and are willing to show it to the world.
Set aside cuddle time.
There is no better way to spend moments together than through cuddling. It feels wonderful to have someone warm and affectionate with whom to share the bed or sofa. Cuddle up with your partner before going to sleep and repeat upon waking up before the two of you start your day. Who knows, it might even lead to something more.
Be sensitive.
Learn to recognize signs of discomfort or worry. Your partner may not feel like talking about whatever it is that worries them, so try to look at their face or demeanor for telltale signs. Let them know that you won't pry, but you'll be ready to listen if they feel like talking about their problems. More often than not, just knowing that you have a loving partner by your side ready to comfort you is enough to get through your problems.
Touch each other.
There is no denying of the many benefits of a loving touch and a sweet caress. Caressing one another keeps you connected and reassured of each other. Try to keep things sensual by frequently touching each other. It doesn't have to be hot and heavy. A slow caress to the cheek or a lingering touch after a hug will do.
Hold hands.
It's both affectionate and romantic to hold hands. Hold each other's while watching TV or while taking a walk. There is nothing sweeter than letting your partner know that you always want to be connected.
Unexpected hugs from behind are also wonderful. Hug your wife while she's cooking or doing the dishes. Be careful when giving surprise hugs; it may end up in disaster if she drops that platter of chips and salsa she prepared for you both.
Groom each other.
Grooming one another isn't an activity that's only limited to monkeys. It can also be a great bonding activity that shows care and devotion for your partner.
Brush her hair a couple hundred times a night, or give him a pedicure when he's had a bad day at work. Give each other back rubs and full body massages when possible, and generally take care of each other's needs so you both feel renewed the day after.
There is a stunning variety of ways to show someone your affection, and these are only scraping the surface. Examine your partner's personality and figure out what will make them happy and satisfied.
What is your favorite way of receiving affection? We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!
