Loving can make one feel happy and good. They say it makes the world go around. But above all that, love is also complicated. When you're seeing someone, it is possible that the other person might not want the same things as you do. You may be looking to settle down, but he might just be looking for something temporary.
If you don't express your wants hard enough, you might not get the kind of relationship you hoped for. To make him fall for you are some strategies that you can use.
Be supportive of his interests
It's normal for you and your guy to have different interests and hobbies. But if you want him to stick around, you need to make an effort to learn about the things that he loves. You don't have completely lose yourself in the process. You just need to be supportive of it.
For example, join him on the couch if his favorite sports team is playing on television. Cheer for his favorite team. It also helps to know a thing or two about the team you're cheering for. Ask him about them and he'll happily explain everything to you if he feels that you are truly interested. He'll fall in love with you even more when he sees that you're making an effort to relate to him.
Observe proper hygiene at all times
Don't expect a guy to stick around if you can barely care for yourself. If you want him to stick, try your best to smell good and look clean all the time. It doesn't mean you should drench yourself in perfume or wear three layers of makeup. As long as you look clean and pleasant-smelling, you should be fine.
Also, smelling good can be a major bonus for your relationship. According to a study, scents can trigger attraction and memories. So, if you want your guy to keep thinking about you, put on a nice smelling perfume. Try to stick with one scent. This way, when he catches the scent somewhere else, he'll automatically think of you.
Show that you can handle yourself financially
Although it is common for guys to foot the bill during the first few dates, you can always offer to divide the costs between the two of you. This is important especially when you've been dating for quite a while. Your initiative to pay for yourself shows that you can handle yourself financially.
He might insist on paying the bill most of the time, but offering shows that you want it to be fair. Most guys find it even more attractive when a woman can support herself financially. It shows your guy that you can take care of yourself, and that you aren't just in the relationship for the free meals.
Cook good food for him
As the old saying goes, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." This is quite true. Men love good food, but not all of them can or have time to cook for themselves. So if you know how to cook nice meals, it's guaranteed he'll never want to let you go.
If you don't know how to cook, don't worry. You can easily learn by watching cooking tutorials online. There are tons of them that you can experiment with. You can start learning some of his favorites until you come up with something unique of your own. He'll surely fall head-over-heels in love with you.
In Summary
Keep in mind that you should never pretend to be someone you're not. If he doesn't fall in love with your true nature, then what's the point of wanting a lasting relationship with him? Love requires hard work. So, just keep working things out with your guy and you might just have your happily ever after!
Any secrets you can add to our list? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
